The title is already a loaded phrase, which makes it challenging to know where to begin. However, there is one word that often comes to mind when people talk about “masculinity” or “being a man.” That word is strength. To be sure, “strength” is another loaded term, especially in this context. Yet this is precisely the reason conversations about masculinity are necessary. Strength can take many forms, and not all of them yield the same results. For example, if by “strength” we mean an ability...

As parents and caring adults, we all want the best for the kids in our lives. We want them to feel safe, do well, and become confident, capable adults. Yet, we face questions along the way. How much structure is too much? How much autonomy is enough? Kids and teens need both structure and freedom in order to thrive. Erik Erikson’s work in the field of human development helps us understand why this balance matters, especially during two key stages of childhood and adolescence: industry vs....

Conversations about healthy masculinity, particularly during adolescence and young adulthood, have become increasingly urgent. Across education, work, mental health, and social life, many young men appear to be struggling. Boys now lag behind girls on several academic and professional indicators, and mental health outcomes tell an equally sobering story. According to the Anxiety and Depression Association of America, roughly one in ten men experience depression or anxiety, yet fewer than half...