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Staying True to Yourself Under Pressure
Define your values and beliefs. Ask yourself, “what do I believe and why”? Is there a behavior I need to gain control over? What do I...


Five TED Talks to Spark New Thoughts in the New Year
We are at the beginning of a new year! Full of time when many of us make resolutions about how we are going to improve our minds, our...


“It’s Not If, It’s When” – Managing Anxiety for Parents of Kids with Chronic Illnesses
You’re not losing sleep about if all the pillows are lined up straight downstairs on the couch. You’re not worried about catching a life...


5 Easy Ways to Avoid Holiday Burnout This Year
But as our lives have grown and changed, I’ve come to a realization: How many of those things do we really HAVE to do? Because at the...


A Holiday Wellness Check: Enjoying the season on your own terms
gjoyjoy Identify Holiday Stressors The great thing about holiday stress is that it is often predictable. We can anticipate when the...


Kindness Always Wins
Do Things For People Not Because of Who They Are or What They Do In Return, But Because of Who You Are – Harold S. Kushner Being kind not...


Grieving Unmet Expectations
When you think of grief, it is likely what comes Sad flowers to mind is bereavement and grief after someone passes away. Grieving is...


Living Vicariously Through Your Child
To live vicariously through your child often means to push your own ambitions onto your offspring in order to gain a feeling of success...


Turning Our “Yes” Into a “Hell, Yes” by Saying it Less Often
We are getting into holiday season! Enter in the excited butterflies and overall groans as we wince under the weight of additional...


What to Know About Caring for Someone with a Terminal Illness
Ask Your Loved One What They Want Everyone has a different reaction to a terminal diagnosis and their own preferences for how they wish...


Infertility 101
The topic of infertility is a very real matter for an estimated 6.1 million people, or 15% of couples, in the United States. Infertility...


Standing Up For Joy
I’m here today to remind you to stop. Stop trying to do everything for everyone else. This time of year is about joy, so let it be...


Coping With Grief During The Holidays
The holidays bring meaning to certain days, and we bring much significance back to them. When you have lost someone special, your world...


Family Tradition
Family Getting married was extremely exciting for me. Not only because we were starting a new family together, but also because we got to...


Thirty and Thriving: Structured Play Time Can Help Your Child
What is Filial Therapy? Filial Therapy, created by Bernard Gurney in 1964, refers to a type of psychotherapy. Parents are taught how to...


How Postpartum Stole Christmas!
Motherhood is hard. Mother hood gets more challenging with postpartum blues and it’s more intense emotions. During the holidays, the...


8 Lessons from Suicide Attempt Survivors
Here’s 8 things attempt survivors want you to know. You can – and should – ask someone who could be suicidal how they’re feeling. Many...


Community of Trust
I recently listened to a podcast called Sorta Awesome. A licensed clinical social worker Leann Gardner (http://www.leanngardner.com) was...


Parents Playing Nice
Parents may get divorced, but they must continue to interact with each other on behalf of the children. It’s beneficial to the child that...


Help! How Do I Survive My Monster-In-Law?!
Set firm boundaries. You may not mind when your father-in-law offers parenting advice from his decades of experience. On the other hand,...


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