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When You Just Can’t Figure Out The Right Words: Sand Tray Therapy
Feedback from this therapy has been phenomenal! I personally have used it with individuals who have been through trauma, abuse, or...


Why Optimism Matters
“Pessimistic prophecies are self-fulling.” – Martin Seligman, Ph.D. The topic of optimism reminds me of the common quote: “Life is what...


Getting “Unstuck”
Defining EMDR and how it works How Does it Work? When a person experiences intense emotion, their brain cannot process information as it...


The Sandwich Generation
The Sandwich Generation is a generation of people who care for their aging parents while supporting their own children. According to the...


Now You’re Speaking my Love-Language: Acts of Service
If these 5 love languages are new to you, don’t worry! First, I encourage you and your partner to discover your own love languages by...


Getting Lost and Finding Yourself: Stepping Outside of Your Teenage Shell
My Experiences Middle school feels like another life to me. High school is a funny and distant memory to me because of how deeply I felt...


3 Tips on How to Use a Mantra to Shift Your Thinking
Mantra means, “a tool for the mind.” The practice of using a mantra has been around for a very long time and is used to shift thinking...


The Truth About Health Anxiety
As a therapist, health anxiety is something that I have battled for the past ten years. In my mind, a headache may turn into a brain...


Your Superpower
Last month brimmed with exciting entertainment ventures from the franchises Game of Thrones and Marvel Entertainment. The global...


Evaluation in Marital Therapy: Marital Dyad Factors
Emotional Climate To begin, the authors describe an emotional climate using the terms: Safety Is the relationship a safe place? If so,...


What is Narcissistic Personality Disorder?
NPD involves a pattern of egotistical behavior, a lack of empathy, and an extreme need for admiration. Others often describe people with...


Stay the Course…
“Trust AND enjoy the process.” Heeding this advice, I switched my focus from the destination to the moment. During the last three years,...


Responding vs. Reacting
“By learning to accept the small things immediately as they happen, you can be free of having to react to things at all. You still can...


Child Abuse Awareness Month
There are many different types of child abuse. Knowing the signs may help you save a child’s life. Neglect Neglect, the most common form...


A New Frontier: Pharmaceutical Relief for Postpartum Depression
How does it work? The drug is administered via a one-time transfusion over a 60-hour period. For this reason, new mothers who receive...


10 Self-Care Tips and Practices for Maintaining Sanity
Remember that you cannot fill up anyone else glass if yours is empty. Tips Acknowledge the need for self-care before you approach...


Acceptance and Commitment Therapy
Gaining Psychological Flexibility Through the Third-Wave of Behavioral Therapy What is Acceptance and Commitment Therapy? Do you ever...


The Power of Connection – Part 1
As a counseling intern, I treasure this audiobook. As a human, I treasure her honesty and unguarded approach. In my opinion, she answers...


Connect, Then Redirect.
What is discipline? When you think about discipline, what first comes to mind? Is it punishment? Is it a spanking and a time-out? Maybe...


Self-Care: Spring Cleaning For Your Mind
You can start by understanding your need for self-care. Establish a routine that works for you. Check in with yourself and ask for what...


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