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Stay the Course…
“Trust AND enjoy the process.” Heeding this advice, I switched my focus from the destination to the moment. During the last three years,...


Responding vs. Reacting
“By learning to accept the small things immediately as they happen, you can be free of having to react to things at all. You still can...


6 Ways to Build Resiliency
Tools to help you to bounce back from life’s challenges. There are many factors that go into building resiliency. Some involve things...


Evaluation In Marital Therapy: Family System Factors
Premorbid state of the family/marriage The multigenerational family system is important to look at. It’s framework can be used to learn...


Infertility 101
The topic of infertility is a very real matter for an estimated 6.1 million people, or 15% of couples, in the United States. Infertility...


The Power of Connection – Part 2
Self Love Prior to listening to Dr. Brown’s audiobook, I was constantly looking at the relationships my clients have with their parents,...


Symbiosis: The Empath and the Narcissist
You may feel as if your purpose in this life is to facilitate the healing of others. You emotionally feed and water others to watch them...


A New Frontier: Pharmaceutical Relief for Postpartum Depression
How does it work? The drug is administered via a one-time transfusion over a 60-hour period. For this reason, new mothers who receive...


Evaluation in Marital Therapy
In the book The Evaluation and Treatment of Marital Conflict by Philip J. Guerin, Jr. Leo F. Fay, Susan L. Burden, and Judith Gilbert...


10 Self-Care Tips and Practices for Maintaining Sanity
Remember that you cannot fill up anyone else glass if yours is empty. Tips Acknowledge the need for self-care before you approach...


Acceptance and Commitment Therapy
Gaining Psychological Flexibility Through the Third-Wave of Behavioral Therapy What is Acceptance and Commitment Therapy? Do you ever...


The Power of Connection – Part 1
As a counseling intern, I treasure this audiobook. As a human, I treasure her honesty and unguarded approach. In my opinion, she answers...


Ask a Boring Question, Get a Boring Response.
20 questions to ask our children instead of, “How was your day?” Can anyone relate? What’s so lame about this question? The problem with...


Now You’re Speaking my Love-Language: Words of Affirmation
Believe it or not, the same thing happens in relationships because there are different Love Languages. Maybe you’ve already heard about...


Parenting Success begins with You
As parents, we embrace the pressures of parenting because we want the best for our children. The good news is that parenting does not...


Connect, Then Redirect.
What is discipline? When you think about discipline, what first comes to mind? Is it punishment? Is it a spanking and a time-out? Maybe...


Self-Care: Spring Cleaning For Your Mind
You can start by understanding your need for self-care. Establish a routine that works for you. Check in with yourself and ask for what...


L-P-C What?
Defining the Difference Between an LPC and an LPC-Intern One of the biggest misunderstandings was surrounding the role of an LPC-Intern....


Harry Potter and the Meaning of Suffering
Emotions While this may seem counter intuitive, sometimes the way we know we are prospering as humans is through our ability to feel and...


Parenting Out of Fear
“Where Fear Is, Happiness Is Not” –Author Unknown I didn’t realize it at the time, but throughout my child’s first three years, I had...


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