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So We Got the Diagnosis of Autism…. Now What?
Every Child is Different Recognize that every child is different. The thing about this diagnosis is that it is a spectrum and covers a...


When the Outside Doesn’t Match the Inside: Bipolar Disorder
The Bipolar High! During those highs, you have so much energy. Even with little to no sleep, you feel like you can tackle anything and...


Physical Needs and Emotional Needs
Maslow’s hierarchy of needs is typically one of the first things taught in Psychology 101 courses. Have you seen his pyramid of needs...


Relationship-ocalypse: How To Be a “Honeymoon Period” Survivor
The biggest early obstacle to any relationship is one that few ever see coming: the dreaded end of the Honeymoon Period. The initial...


How to Support Someone Going Through An Emotionally Difficult Time: Tea and Honey – Part Two
Loving someone comes with high and low days. Loving someone with a chronic condition or someone going through an extended difficult time...


Cinema Therapy
What is Cinema Therapy? “Cinema therapy” is real and is sometimes prescribed by therapists. However, it’s usually a self-administered...


Vicarious Trauma
While there are signs you or a person you know may be dealing with vicarious trauma, everyone copes differently. If you notice any of...


When the Outside Doesn’t Match the Inside: Part Two
You think to yourself – “why bother? Nobody is going to notice if I miss work, anyway.” You struggle with feeling like maybe you don’t...


5 Things to Consider When Assessing Your Self-Care
Physical Self-Care Of course, physical self-care is vital to over health and wellbeing. When we are not eating healthy foods or taking...


How to Support Someone Going through An Emotionally Difficult Time – Part One
Tea and Honey Which one do you relate the most to? For me, it fluctuates. Sometimes I’m piglet, being the person offering the support....


Myth-Busters: Relationships Edition
One of the first conversations I have with these types of couples involves exploring the expectations that they brought to the...


What do Pulling Weeds and Therapy have in Common?
3 three different types of weeds I noticed were the ones that: Came right up Are so deep that the root is left behind when tugged on. Are...


How to Incorporate Optimism: Step 1
“[…] Pessimists can learn the skills of optimism and permanently improve the quality of their lives.” – Martin Seligman. Ph.D. Dr....


When the Outside Doesn’t Match the Inside: Part One
Persistent Depressive Disorder You’re the one always smiling and laughing to prove that you’re having fun in the social setting that you...


The Cycle of Anger
The Cycle The first event that occurs during the cycle of anger is the triggering event. This is an occurrence that triggers an...


From Roommates to Reconnection
“We have different lives, like passing ships.” “It’s like we’re not even married anymore; we’re just roommates.” I hear these difficult...


When You Just Can’t Figure Out The Right Words: Sand Tray Therapy
Feedback from this therapy has been phenomenal! I personally have used it with individuals who have been through trauma, abuse, or...


Evaluation in Marital Therapy: Individual Factors
In order to treat marital conflict, the therapist needs to get a picture of the emotional state of each spouse. Three criteria Guerin and...


Why Optimism Matters
“Pessimistic prophecies are self-fulling.” – Martin Seligman, Ph.D. The topic of optimism reminds me of the common quote: “Life is what...


Getting “Unstuck”
Defining EMDR and how it works How Does it Work? When a person experiences intense emotion, their brain cannot process information as it...
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