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Grieving Unmet Expectations
When you think of grief, it is likely what comes Sad flowers to mind is bereavement and grief after someone passes away. Grieving is...


Living Vicariously Through Your Child
To live vicariously through your child often means to push your own ambitions onto your offspring in order to gain a feeling of success...


How to Deepen Your Relationship, Part I
If you stop for a moment and take a good look at the relationship you have with your partner, are you connecting on a deep and intimate...


The Affair Series: The Windows and Walls of Affair Relationships
Shirley Glass and Jean Coppock Staeheli, in their book Not “Just Friends”: Rebuilding Trust and Recovering Your Sanity After Infidelity,...


Turning Our “Yes” Into a “Hell, Yes” by Saying it Less Often
We are getting into holiday season! Enter in the excited butterflies and overall groans as we wince under the weight of additional...


Self Care in 5 Minutes or Less for the Busy Mom
When it came time to write this article, my partner asked me what felt alive for me in life at the moment. My response? “Sleep!” Self...


The Unavoidable Guilt of Screen Time
Child on cell phone As the parent of two preschoolers, it often feels like parental guilt is a staple in my day-to-day routines. I feel...


Why “Thankful Season” Should Last All Year Long in Your Relationship
Gratitude It’s thankful season! Each year, we gather around and one-by-one share what we’re grateful for. We likely put more thought into...


What to Know About Caring for Someone with a Terminal Illness
Ask Your Loved One What They Want Everyone has a different reaction to a terminal diagnosis and their own preferences for how they wish...


Stop Should-ing on Yourself
What Could / Should Have Been?: I could very easily let that mean, little voice run through my head – “you should’ve worked harder”, “you...


Scared Silent – Breaking the Stigma Around Suicidal Ideation
“Please don’t call the hospital.” “Don’t be scared, it’s not that bad.” “Don’t freak out.” “I don’t know, I don’t want you to panic or...


Connection Connection: Read All About It!
Individuals have many needs- both physical, emotional, and spiritual. The focus of this series has been taking a dive into the nine...


Maternal Suicide: Mom’s Are Not Immune
https://www.2020mom.org/maternal-suicide-awareness What is Maternal Suicide? Suicide is one of the leading causes of maternal death in...


Your Past Self Keeps Knocking – Here’s Why (and How) You Should Answer the Door: Part 1
Is It In the Past? You probably hear things like “the past is the past” and “you should just let it go” often – they’re common sayings....


Suicide: What to Know
What Are The Warning Signs of Suicide? Excessive sadness or moodiness: Long-lasting sadness, mood swings, and unexpected rage....


Suicide Preparations, A Calm Before the Storm
Preparations to end your life. It’s a stage that isn’t often talked about. We discuss the thoughts leading up to it, and then we discuss...


The Back-to-School Reset
Set the tone. Parents wear many hats. A parent fulfills every role in the home from peacemaker to entertainer to chef. It is because of...


Surviving Back to School… While Married!
Back to School… Pursuing higher education is stressful, but sometimes, it’s a plunge you just have to take – whether it’s to finish...


Pay Attention To Me…. Also, Give Me Space!
What are the Nine Emotional Needs? A quick review, the nine emotional needs are: security, volition, attention, emotional connection,...


To those who have lost someone to suicide,
September is Suicide Prevention Awareness Month. Initially, you may appreciate the statistics and the acknowledgment. When the month...
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