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How to Be a Supportive Spouse When Your Partner is Sick
The sniffles start, then comes the sneezing, and then the fever. The head fog and body aches follow shortly behind. You wash your hands a...


4 Tips to Help You Make Friends as an Adult (Because it’s Hard!)
Being an avid gym-goer, I see many faces at the gym. For the most part, everyone keeps to themselves, but you start to recognize more...


It’s You & Me vs. The World
Have you ever thought back to when you were dating your spouse and felt like there was nothing in the world that you two couldn’t tackle...


When Your Toddler’s Big Emotions Give You Big Emotions!
A couple months ago I shared a post on my Instagram (@realtalkandrainbowscounseling – you should follow me!) about bringing my toddler in...


Crisis Situations & Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) Skills
So you just discovered your spouse is having an affair. The doctor just disclosed a diagnosis of a serious medical condition you thought...


When Going to Church is Hard
Confession: Going to church has been hard lately. I can’t remember exactly when it started. As a believer, attending church regularly is...


Parents Having Confident Conversations
Whenever I am in session, doing a group talk, or casually speaking with parents, the frequently asked question starts with these curious...


Thoughtful Valentine’s Day Gifts Without Breaking the Bank
Valentine’s Day is right around the corner! We’re starting to see chocolate boxes and flowers on display at stores. Hearts and Cupid...


How to Talk to Someone That is Grieving
Death and loss are inevitable. They’re the most sure things about life. For some reason, though, we can get weird around the topic of...


Date Night…In? A How To Guide!
You’ve done all the right things, you’ve scheduled the babysitter, made reservations, picked out an outfit and have been looking forward...


How to Love Yourself (When Struggling with Mental Illness)
Struggling with mental illness can be a destructive process. We pick ourselves apart, judge ourselves, over-analyze every move we make...


A Letter to My Clients That Are Mothers
Safe Sanctuary Your stories have filled the therapy room with tears, anxiety, and anger as you bravely enter into vulnerability sitting...


Dear Mama: A Letter of Recognition & Encouragement
So, no one told you life would be this…wait. Let me restart. So, you became a mother? Perhaps while preparing for motherhood, you...


Unhealthy Friendships in Adulthood
Something I work on with my clients ALL. THE. TIME. is how to identify healthy relationships. No, I don’t just mean romantic...


How to Save Your Relationship from the Rise of Technology
Reclaim Attention in Your Relationship Attention is very important to human beings. As helpless infants, we need attention from others to...


“So, I don’t know how to say this, but…”: Why it’s important to have awkward conversatio
Have you ever had an “awkward” therapy experience? What was your response? Did you ghost your therapist? Did you cancel all future...


An Open Letter To The Parents of My Child and Adolescent Clients
But do you ever wonder what goes on in my head at the end of the day when I go home after working with your child? Do you wonder how I...


When Children of Divorce Become Adults
Celebrations & Holidays Being an adult child of divorce means there is no “home” to go back to during the holiday season. Typically, the...


Staying True to Yourself Under Pressure
Define your values and beliefs. Ask yourself, “what do I believe and why”? Is there a behavior I need to gain control over? What do I...


A Lesson From the Honeybee: Working with What You’ve Got
We’re all unique individuals Sometimes we forget where we came from – the tools we were (or weren’t) born with or provided while growing...
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