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Harry Potter and Moving Past Biology
Choice I have talked a lot about choice in this series. I think it is an important part of self-development. Choice is something that we...


A Letter to Yesterday
To be honest, I don’t know where to start with addressing you. We have had so many ups and downs. I guess you have taught me some...


Infidelity Isn’t a Choice: Part 2
“…neurochemicals – dopamine, norepinephrine and serotonin – surge through the body, igniting the euphoric feelings that come with falling...


Our Daily Trauma Intake
Trauma Intake You are constantly intaking trauma throughout the day. So the big question is; what is your daily trauma intake? Have you...


Helping Helps
Networking Volunteering helps us connect with people who want to be a part of effective change. People who volunteer or who aim to help...


Harry Potter and the Invisible Scars
Battling Thoughts I think anyone who has struggled with their mental health can relate to the idea that sometimes your thoughts can cause...


Is Sex Last on Your To-Do List?
If you’re too busy for sex, you’re too busy! The truth is that sex, like all other facets of marriage, takes work. You have to be willing...


Infidelity Isn’t a Choice: Part 1
I loved sports cards when I was in the 4th grade; collected, traded, and talked about them in class. I also combed through many Beckett...


New Year, New Me
Have you already started working on those New Year’s resolutions? Or are you like me and already counting the number of times you’ve...


Mindfulness and Resolutions
Resolutions Recently, I was sitting around my fire pit in the backyard with a few friends. We were chatting about all the great things we...


Loving Freely
The truth is protecting ourselves is really costing us something we don’t know we need. That is, sincere connections made out of pure...


Standing Up For Joy
I’m here today to remind you to stop. Stop trying to do everything for everyone else. This time of year is about joy, so let it be...


The Complexities of Nostalgia: Part 1
Throwback Thursday Did you have a social media account years ago? If yes, you are likely being reminded of some of the past events and...


Hello, New Year! Bye-Bye Bad Habits!
Stop Saying, “New Year, New Me!” More like “New Year, Same Ol’ Me.” I get the intent behind this, but you aren’t going to suddenly become...


Coping With Grief During The Holidays
The holidays bring meaning to certain days, and we bring much significance back to them. When you have lost someone special, your world...


When It Rains, It Pours…
Keep your regular routine. A reliable and stable schedule brings a sense of control to our lives. In the midst of chaos, try your...


Harry Potter and the Journey Back Home
Expectations You might be faced with expectations from your family, friends and even yourself this holiday season. You may feel...


Surviving the Crowds at Christmas
I took on the outlet store challenge this weekend and completed my Christmas shopping. Unfortunately, my feelings were no different than...


Celebrating Successes and Lessons Learned
This month, I am going to take a step back from our goal-setting blogs. Instead, I will share a great technique I learned while spending...


How Much Sex Is Normal In A Marriage?
How often should we be having sex? Great question! I’m glad you asked. It’s completely normal to wonder if you are having more or less...
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