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Summertime Blues: A Closer Look at Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
Seasonal Affective Disorder Many are surprised to learn that summertime blues affect many individuals across the country. Seasonal...


Disciplining a Child With Trauma
Each child is unique and so is their trauma story. When testing out new discipline strategies, it is important to remember that there is...


Maximize the Fun in Family Vacations
School’s out, sun’s out. This can only mean one thing: Summer’s here and it’s time to have some fun! Research tells us that having fun is...


When Trauma Decides to Stay
Understanding 3 common symptoms of PTSD We often associate PTSD with war and soldiers in today’s society. However, anyone who has...


3 Questions Every Father Should Ask Himself
What are your strengths as a father? I’m sure you don’t stop often and ask yourself, “What are my strengths as a father, what am I doing...


Managing Screen Time This Summer
Parents may be concerned with the amount of screen time their child is engaging in with summer upon us and school structure gone....


Silence is (Not Always) Golden
However, there’s a time when silence does more harm than good in your relationship. I get it, there is a balance that is sometimes hard...


Breaking Down the Fortress of Resentment
Working with couples has familiarized me with what resentment looks like, sounds like, and its effects. It creeps in like a dark cloud...


Surviving Summer as a Stay-at-Home Mom
A summer self-care guide It’s finally here! The time of the year your kids have been talking about and looking forward to all year long! ...


What is Pride Month?
Happy Pride Month! To begin, it is important that I highlight this pride-filled month as a therapist that provides counseling services...


Masking Mental Illness
Recently, I was shocked to hear about the passing of one of my favorite designers, Kate Spade. To me, she had it all going for her. Her...


Tips to Help Teens Talk to Parents
As teens, it is 100% normal to want to avoid- if at all possible- talking to your parents! However, it’s important to create and...


Bedtime Anxiety : Helping Your Child Sleep Alone
Bedtime Anxiety Allowing your child to sleep in your bed causes problems not only for your child, but also for you. It reinforces the...


6 Ideas for Becoming a Better Listener in Your Marriage
There are 8 basic parts of communication: sender, encoding, the actual message, channel, decoding, receiver, noise, and feedback. Each...


Couples Diffusing Arguments with Repair Attempts
Dr. Gottman, one of the most renowned researchers in marriage and divorce, noticed that one thing that affects whether or not a couple...


Talking to Your Children About Suicide – Why it’s Important
PSA: It is PAST time to be having conversations about suicide with our children! According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, we...


3 Steps in Selecting a Counselor
You’re are at a point in your life where you realize you need help. Things are out of control, you’ve lost your happiness and life just...


Dating and Thinking About Getting Married? Ask Yourself These Questions First!
‘Hypothetical’ conversation: Me: So, you’re thinking about getting married? Person: Yes! They are the one! Me: How do you know they’re...


The Benefits of Journaling
Journaling is a therapeutic tool or strategy prescribed by many therapists to help people who may be struggling with a variety of life...


Playing the Rivalry Game
Sibling rivalry and peer rivalry are part of life. As human beings, it is natural to want to know where your child ranks in comparison to...
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