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Masking Mental Illness
Recently, I was shocked to hear about the passing of one of my favorite designers, Kate Spade. To me, she had it all going for her. Her...


Tips to Help Teens Talk to Parents
As teens, it is 100% normal to want to avoid- if at all possible- talking to your parents! However, it’s important to create and...


Bedtime Anxiety : Helping Your Child Sleep Alone
Bedtime Anxiety Allowing your child to sleep in your bed causes problems not only for your child, but also for you. It reinforces the...


6 Ideas for Becoming a Better Listener in Your Marriage
There are 8 basic parts of communication: sender, encoding, the actual message, channel, decoding, receiver, noise, and feedback. Each...


Couples Diffusing Arguments with Repair Attempts
Dr. Gottman, one of the most renowned researchers in marriage and divorce, noticed that one thing that affects whether or not a couple...


Talking to Your Children About Suicide – Why it’s Important
PSA: It is PAST time to be having conversations about suicide with our children! According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, we...


3 Steps in Selecting a Counselor
You’re are at a point in your life where you realize you need help. Things are out of control, you’ve lost your happiness and life just...


Dating and Thinking About Getting Married? Ask Yourself These Questions First!
‘Hypothetical’ conversation: Me: So, you’re thinking about getting married? Person: Yes! They are the one! Me: How do you know they’re...


The Benefits of Journaling
Journaling is a therapeutic tool or strategy prescribed by many therapists to help people who may be struggling with a variety of life...


Playing the Rivalry Game
Sibling rivalry and peer rivalry are part of life. As human beings, it is natural to want to know where your child ranks in comparison to...


Monitoring Your Kids Phone
Monitoring Your Kids Phone I’m sure it’s difficult to be a parent. You do your best to enforce rules and raise respectful kids, just to...


3 Benefits of Men Going to Therapy
For this blog I want to talk to the men, my apologies to the women, please feel free to pass along the info in this blog to the important...


The Difference Between Empathy and Sympathy
Empathy and Sympathy Two words that are often used interchangeably are empathy and sympathy. Although both have comparable meanings,...


Power of Music – Listen to Your Heart
Music is a Bridge It can move your soul, build memories, create connections with others. It is a universal experience for all humans. We...


Is Sex Therapy for Me? 5 Answers to Commonly Asked Questions
Furthermore, each couple deals with sexual compatibility a little differently. On one hand, some will seek help early when issues arise....


Life Balance versus Giving 100%
Life Balance Imagine you have an empty cup and that you could fill it with five different kinds of juice to make a fancy juice blend....


Learning To Say “No”
“Sure, I’ll help you with that.” “Yes, I’ll do that for you.” “No problem at all.” “No, I don’t mind.” Does this sound familiar to you? ...


Practicing Gratitude
Before we get to December 31st, it can feel like the year has been a major downer. Personally, 2017 was ridiculous. It felt like the year...


Eating Disorders are Not Just a Female Issue
The National Eating Disorder Association (NEDA) explains that although eating disorders impact those in all genders, socioeconomic...


Dating Your Spouse on a Budget
Fanning the flame of desire in your marriage doesn’t have to cost you an arm and a leg it can be fun and stay in budget! Date nights (or...
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